TEST ANXIETY
Test anxiety mostly results from the personal structures of parents.Some parents are very anxious and distressed.They think that the child who goes to school will be in trouble.This anxiety of parents often passes to the child.
Some parents are perfectionist,rigorous and prim.They are intolerant.As they know the most accurate one,they expect others to abide by this rules.They want to decide how,what and when their child will study.They think their child will not achieve if he does not study in the way they decide.In other words,they struggle to control their child's life completely.On the contrary,this may cause the child to behave conversely.
Some parents are in dreams to being the most beautiful,handsome and successful.They want their child to be like that.If it does not happen,they may be disappointed.They see their child's success as their own success.This is a source of concern for the child.
Some parents'self-confidence is low.How well the child prepare for exam,both parents and child can not live the comfort of being ready.Moreover,people like this have high expectations.
Some parents are shy.They think about things which society says and they live for this.They are afraid of doing wrong something because they are afraid of being ashamed in society.They reflect these fears to the child.They want their child not to be ashamed.
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